Elderly Care in Rowayton CT: Tips for Handling Resistance from Your Aging Loved One


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Tips for Handling Resistance from Your Aging Loved One

Elderly Care in Rowayton CT

Elderly Care in Rowayton CTApproximately 77 percent of family caregivers for elderly parents report feeling that their aging loved ones are “stubborn” or that they resist that care efforts that they try to give them, so if you are experiencing these feelings, you are certainly not alone. Feeling like your parent is not receptive to the care efforts that you are trying to give them can be frustrating, but it can also be detrimental to the care that you give them.

Use these tips to help you handle resistance from your aging loved one:

• Understand the reason behind it. Your elderly loved one is not going to resist the care that you want to give them arbitrarily. There is a reason behind them being stubborn or not being receptive to this care. Understanding this reason can help you to better address it. This can be embarrassment, desire for independence, reluctance to admit need, or dementia, among other reasons.

• Appeal to their emotions. Often elderly adults are not willing to overcome the reasons behind their resistance for their own health and well-being. Instead, appeal to their emotions. Tell them how much you want them to be healthy or that you want them to be there for their grandchildren. They are more likely to comply with your efforts if they feel that they will benefit the people they love.

• Respect their adulthood. No matter what your elderly parent is dealing with, they are still an adult. Avoid treating your parent like a child when caring for them. This includes choosing the words that you use around them very carefully and not using demeaning language such as “diaper” or “potty” and instead speaking to them with appropriate, respectful adult language.

• Be supportive of yourself. You might not always get your way as a caregiver. There might be times when your parent simply refuses to follow your advice or accept your help. It is important that you are supportive of yourself and not allow yourself to become overcome with guilt or stress. Instead, accept these moments and keep your focus on giving them the best care possible.

Starting home care for your elderly loved one can be one of the most compassionate, nurturing, and meaning decisions that you can make throughout your caregiver journey with your elderly parent. This in-home senior care services provider can be with your elderly loved one on a customized schedule that is right for their individual needs, challenges, and limitations, as well as their personality, lifestyle, and goals. They can also take into consideration the amount of care that you give them, meaning that you can always feel confident that they are getting everything that they need to stay happy, healthy, comfortable, and safe even when you are unable to be with them. The highly personalized care, assistance, and support of a home care provider can also be invaluable if there are specific tasks or care needs that are too challenging for you physically or outside of your emotional capability or the comfort and willingness of your aging loved one. This care provider can fulfill these needs in a respectful, supportive, and dignified way that ensures it is managed properly and that enables you to step back and focus your energy more effectively and efficiently.


If you or an aging loved one are considering elderly care in Rowayton, CT or the surrounding areas, please contact SYNERGY HomeCare of Stamford, CT at 203-661-6969.

Caleena Namdev, Owner, SYNERGY HomeCare Stamford

Caleena Namdev is the President and Owner of Synergy HomeCare in Stamford, Connecticut. She is a graduate of University of Connecticut. Caleena has been working with seniors for a long time - whether it was her volunteer work with the IRS, or her role at the prestigious trust and estate law firm in Darien. Providing guidance to seniors and family members so they can get the help they need, is a passion for Caleena.

"Hi - I am Caleena Namdev, President and Owner of Synergy HomeCare in Stamford, Connecticut. Our entire staff at SYNERGY HomeCare wishes to extend you our warmest welcome. We know that searching for personalized, high quality care for your loved one is difficult. Your loved ones deserve the highest level of care and support. At SYNERGY HomeCare, we strive to exceed the high standards that you have set for their care. Please call my office at (203) 661-6969 and speak to a member of my CareTEAM™.

When you call us, you will be speaking with Stamford's most reliable, professionally managed, non-medical homecare agency - an agency, you can depend on for the care of your loved ones, whether you live around town, or thousands of miles away. You will also be speaking with an agency, where the owners are directly involved in ensuring that your loved ones get the highest level of care. We are SWCCA approved and are able to work directly with your long term insurance provider and worker's compensation insurance provider."

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